How old do
you have to be
to foster?
There's only one age requirement of any foster parent, anywhere in the UK – and that is that you have to be over 21. There’s no upper age limit to foster either and we have many people who started their careers in fostering later in life.
We have foster parents of all ages - in fact, our youngest couple, Alarna and Jermayne, were just 26 when they started fostering with us, but we also have people in their 80’s caring for our young people.
When you're thinking of becoming a foster parent, the main things we are interested in are your life experience, health and ability to provide a vulnerable child with a safe, loving home.
If you have any questions or would like more information on fostering, please get in touch with our friendly team via our online form, or by calling us on 0800 369 8513.
Am I too old to be a foster parent?
It’s a common misconception that you have to be under a certain age to foster. However, there really is no maximum age for fostering as long as you are fit and healthy, and have enough energy to meet the needs of children and young people in foster care.
In fact, many people wait until their own children have grown up to start their fostering journey, and so around half of our foster parents are over 55 years. That’s not to say that you can’t foster while bringing up your own children, as many of our foster families do this too.
People who are older bring many advantages to fostering, including their life experiences and often their own experience with children before, having time in retirement to care for a child, and space in their home if their children have flown the nest - and so have a valuable role to play.
Around 45% of foster carers across the UK are aged between 45 and 54, and another 30% over 55. At Orange Grove, we have older foster parents up to 84, so age really isn’t a barrier at all. All applicants will need to complete a medical examination as part of the fostering assessment, and all that matters is you have the time, qualities and energy to support the demands of children, which is something we’ll look at during the application process when you're applying to foster.
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Fostering as a younger person
A national survey showed that only 4% of foster parents were aged under 34 – and that’s a big shame because younger people have a great deal to offer, and they can get a lot out of the role too.
They’re closer to the age of young people with lots of energy to give, which can be a real advantage, while fostering can open up a rewarding long-term career – with ongoing training, the chance to specialise and a generous financial package, meaning they can truly focus on the children in their care. Few careers can offer such challenges and satisfaction, or the opportunity to learn new skills.
We understand that younger people have many competing demands on their time, but fostering is really worthwhile and we welcome applications from younger people who want to transform the lives of children in care.
Frequently asked questions
What age can you start fostering?
You must be 21 years old to become a foster parent in England.
This is a legal requirement that is set by the Fostering Services Regulations 2011, and ensures that you have the level of maturity and responsibility need to care for vulnerable children and young people.
Can I choose the age of the children I foster?
Certainly! Before being approved as a foster parent, you will have lots of meaningful conversations with your dedicated social worker about your matching preferences. Along with other things, these discussions will help determine the age range that suits your personal circumstances and lifestyle.
Do you need to have raised children to foster?
Having prior experience raising children is not a prerequisite for fostering, although it can be advantageous to have some familiarity with children. This may be in a professional capacity - for example, by working in a school or nursery - or through personal interactions with children within your family or close circle of friends.
Previous experience with children helps showcase your ability to establish meaningful connections with them and understand their unique needs. If you haven't had prior involvement with children, it could be beneficial to consider volunteering at a children's club or organisation. This would allow you to gain hands-on experience and demonstrate your understanding of child care dynamics.
Can you foster as a retired person?
Absolutely! Many individuals choose to embark on their fostering journey after retiring from their careers. By being retired, you have the advantage of being able to fully dedicate your time and energy to making a significant difference in the life of a young person.
While considering this path, there are certain factors to keep in mind, such as the duration for which you plan to foster. The length of your commitment will impact the types of fostering placements you can provide. For instance, if you envision fostering for approximately 5 years, you may find short-term foster care - where you care for children up to 2 years - or long-term foster care for teenagers, assisting them in their journey toward independence, to be more fitting options.
Undoubtedly, fostering is an incredibly rewarding experience that offers unparalleled fulfilment and the opportunity to positively impact a child's life.
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